Comments on: The descent in the feminine process~ https://mysticmamma.com/the-descent-in-the-feminine-process/ MAMMA MYSTIC ™ Well of collective wisdom, founded and curated by Mijanou Montealegre Wed, 06 Sep 2023 19:26:16 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=4.9.23 By: Kath https://mysticmamma.com/the-descent-in-the-feminine-process/#comment-1139370 Sun, 09 Sep 2018 19:45:25 +0000 http://www.mysticmamma.com/?p=6969#comment-1139370 Nichole, out of necessity one enters the military- a “choice” after which one relinquishes choice & follows orders for awhile. Many of us do what’s best for “family” the collective and lose sense of self; then WAKE UP and don’t respect the self that gave away prime care for self. Hoping we can trust there IS a PURPOSE for us & way to find ourselves.

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By: nichole https://mysticmamma.com/the-descent-in-the-feminine-process/#comment-1138979 Mon, 03 Sep 2018 04:13:18 +0000 http://www.mysticmamma.com/?p=6969#comment-1138979 I am currently depressed and am regarded as major depressive. but I was released from the military and had experienced the abuse that comes with doing well but because I am a woman it isn’t regarded well. either way. nothing is ever good enough you are damned if you do and damned if you don’t. being a woman in this world is a horrible plight but deep inside I feel its beautiful but we are just so under appreciated and disregarded I feel living this way is futile. So I gave up. I recluse to my room and haven’t left just remained hidden. I am starting to see a faintness of maybe I can find something more worthwhile in school or volunteering, Maybe I hope. but this article in particular reminds me what I go through

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By: Shelley Anne https://mysticmamma.com/the-descent-in-the-feminine-process/#comment-1067137 Thu, 15 Feb 2018 11:37:31 +0000 http://www.mysticmamma.com/?p=6969#comment-1067137 ]]> Our culture regards “depression as an illness” a way of keeping the organic process of our being oppressed. Our divine creator created every spirit complete. If we allow ourselves to listen to our cycles they will tell us when to go inward…to reflect…to breath…to be. Thank you MM for sharing such vital wisdom💜

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By: Tory https://mysticmamma.com/the-descent-in-the-feminine-process/#comment-925577 Thu, 30 Mar 2017 18:59:34 +0000 http://www.mysticmamma.com/?p=6969#comment-925577 Free knowledge like this doesn’t just help, it promote deymcraco. Thank you.

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By: Slynn https://mysticmamma.com/the-descent-in-the-feminine-process/#comment-911558 Tue, 17 Jan 2017 07:50:08 +0000 http://www.mysticmamma.com/?p=6969#comment-911558 Exactly!!

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By: Tatiana https://mysticmamma.com/the-descent-in-the-feminine-process/#comment-875182 Thu, 02 Jun 2016 02:32:34 +0000 http://www.mysticmamma.com/?p=6969#comment-875182 Deep deep thank you, so grateful you are that someone posting this and helping us all reconnect <3

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By: Zenith https://mysticmamma.com/the-descent-in-the-feminine-process/#comment-793900 Thu, 11 Feb 2016 18:46:20 +0000 http://www.mysticmamma.com/?p=6969#comment-793900 Oh my God, JULIA ERIKS!

I can SO get you my dear! SO, SO, SO, get you! Pardon the excitement but it is heartening to see someone going through something similar and actually putting it into words. You are strong my dear and you don’t need to prove it to anyone, not even to yourself! You power lies in seeing and changing the subtle which a lot of people cannot even fathom. Abide in yourself and let your sensual feminine, softer (which is seen as weaker by this stupid world!) side of you just flow. The world needs it pronto!

I don’t know what the future holds for me given that I am going through several inner confusions (I see them as clearing the debris!) since a decade now. Health issues and no steady career was a dent to my ego- always been dominated by my logical side. I am still coming to terms with the gratitude and the act of receiving and trusting the process of life and I hope, I’ll be ok. The ambitious, wanting to change the world business graduate is no longer there in me and though that shocks the people around me, I know she’ll make a comeback but in a softer, more fun avatar :)

Have a great time exploring yourself. Cheers!

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By: M https://mysticmamma.com/the-descent-in-the-feminine-process/#comment-722158 Fri, 18 Sep 2015 11:59:01 +0000 http://www.mysticmamma.com/?p=6969#comment-722158 Dear Tecumseh, it is 2 years later and you probably won’t see this, but I am also one who has struggled for a lifetime with suicidal depression. So I have some active understanding of what you say and feel. I also recognize, however, after 40 years of nearly always living with some degree of depression, that it is the same depression. It’s just sometimes just a much deeper color, having darkened from light blue all the way to black, with no relief or light in sight.

The suicidal depression that overwhelmed me some 35-40 years ago and stole nearly a decade of my life is the same sometimes mild and sometimes deep depression that has haunted me off and on to this day. Fortunately at that time, when I was able to get out of bed and do something again, I stumbled onto a couple of very talented and caring psychiatric social workers who left me with good tools to negotiate my way through. I am out of work and living with depression, right now, as I write this.

The difference in every subsequent episode is that I’m no longer mired in it; no longer drowning in it. I have learned to swim through it. To tread water (barely) when I am too worn down by it to swim. To let go and float through it when I am too worn down by it to tread water. And to breathe through it when I am too tired even to float and simply sink to the bottom. And to forgive myself for it, accept and even welcome and embrace the respite it provides.

I have learned to pace myself through it, gaining enough energy while sinking to get done what needs to be done each day, before allowing myself to sink again.

And I have learned through experience that the murky waters will in time recede and the veil of darkness lift. And I have fortunately been able to find a way to keep myself financial afloat long enough to reach the shore and walk again.

I would say those deep, deep depressions are caused by being forced to live in a very sick, even toxic society that doesn’t reflect our humanity, and doesn’t allow us the necessary periods of introversion to reflect on and honor our true natures. So the need builds to desperation, and then we collapse into the deepest depths without having developed the ability to swim or navigate the waters. Like being dumped into the ocean have never been in water above our ankles before.

You were clearly depressed when you wrote this, but you are managing your depression by projecting it outwards toward others, versus inward toward yourself. Projecting your anger towards others who “hurt you” because you do not understand or agree with their words may, in the short term, help you feel better. However it will not, in the long run, increase your undertanding of the causes of your own suffering nor bring you solace nor healing.

I say this with respect for you because I have been where you currently are.

Namaste,
M

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